Happy Friday everyone! I was thinking how most people love Fridays! And I have to admit I like Fridays too because it is the end of the work week for me and gives me a chance to recharge my batteries over the weekend.
But really Thursdays are pretty good days and I don’t mind Wednesdays too much. And if I have an exciting week planned–Mondays don’t bother me at all!
So I was thinking of the TGIFs in my life. Why TGIFs? Why Thank God it’s Friday? I thank God every day–that I got another day!
And I started thinking of the “F” words that I like–french fries, frogs, frequent flyer miles…and I landed on my favorite: Family.
My favorite “F” word is Family. As long as I can remember I have had a very close bond with family, my family and with my husband’s family as well.
That is not to say we like everyone in our family–we love them, but you know, we don’t always like them all.
After all, Families are really just a collection of people either related by blood or some legal process like marriage. And people, you know…are all different, regardless of the blood they carry or the piece of paper that binds them.
Some of my family, who I hold dear to my heart and adore, are not even my family–by blood, paper or any other way. These are my life long friends, some are my parents’ life long friends, who have known me all my life, and who have been there for my children’s lives–who are like my aunts and uncles and brothers and sisters and cousins!
These family members are often closer to us than family family–not because we love them more, but sometime simply because of geography, proximity and frequency.
They are special to us, because they know the “us” we were as children. They may be people who walked along with us and shared our childhoods. They watched us grow and go through awkward times. They were witness to our triumphs. We leaned on them when we needed someone to hold us up and push us forward. Without being asked, just because.
That is what family does.
And once in a while new friends come into your life as well that you do not know for a lifetime–that don’t remember the “you” from grade school with the big buck teeth, the high school “you” with the big hair (ah, the 80’s!) or the “you” you were when you made some big blundering mistake in life–and you click!
They become the new additions to the family–that you know will be around for the next phase in this wonderful ride of life.
Now, I’m not talking about people that come and go through our lives that we may know for a short time. I mean the people we share a bond with, that we care about, worry about, celebrate achievements with and those we help when help is needed.
I’m talking about the people in our lives that call us up right when we need them to, help us through our own journeys, smile, laugh and cry with us.
Those folks get the title “family” in my book–because like my own real blood family–we can disagree, argue, enjoy, annoy, have fun with, feel obligated to, responsible for–and no matter what–they are our people.
And so on this Friday–I celebrate the “F” word–my family, in all it’s messy, confusing, incomprehensible, wonderful, fulfilling and crazy glory we live in.
Take some time today to reach out to your family–and let’s make this a TGFF (Thank God For Family!) day!
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