We are dog people. Although we had a dog growing up–and I loved him–when I left for college, I left the dog behind with the folks. It seemed natural that it would be mom’s dog.
As I grew older–I always felt I was not a pet person, a pet is just so much work! I enjoyed other people’s dogs, but was just not ready to commit.
After I had children, my kids wanted a pet so we started small. The fish, of course, all died. The girls were crazy about their hermit crabs… until they died. The hamster we had for a while bit one of the girls–and it eventually died. We had a rabbit–that, you know, died.
So when they started asking for a puppy–I was NOT on board. Clearly we were not good with animals. But they pleaded and promised and finally we struck a deal.
I promised I would buy them a puppy, if they both got straight As in school that semester. They were both good students–and usually made good marks–but I could tell they were getting “bored” with school, so I felt pretty secure that everything would not be an A, maybe a high B.
God, of course, had other plans–not only did they both get straight As, they got very high As, excelling at everything! And a promise is a promise.
I bought a puppy. A white, female, toy poodle we named Cici. She was the runt of the litter, but was certified–and so darn cute. The girls adored Cici! They carried her around and spoke to her and fed her and took her out to train her to do her business. And everything as they say was perfect–a happy ending.
Until the 4th day. On the 4th day that Cici was part of our family my youngest came to me and was sad. I–in my ignorant bliss–asked her why she was sad? She said she was sad because Cici was sad.
Alarm bells started going off in my head. I went to the dog’s bed and there was Cici, completely lethargic, she could barely raise her head and did not want to eat or drink.
I called my mother to please come watch the girls while I ran off to the Veterinarian–praying the whole way that we were not about to lose another beloved pet.
The Veterinarian took charge right away, thank goodness, and gave Cici an IV and ran some blood tests. After about 3 hours, Cici was back to normal–playful and happy.
The diagnosis: Cici was hypoglycemic and would need constant care until she was bigger, stronger and able to level out her blood sugars with food. I had no idea what this meant–because at that moment, I was also handed the bill–$1200.00!
Her “constant care” turned out to be a feeding schedule that we had to maintain, making sure she ate every 2 hours and also had a teaspoon of Nutri-cal paste which came in tubes that were $15.00 a pop!
Mom had to help me on several nights when I just could not get up to do the 2 hour feedings–and the feedings during the day when I had to go to work! It was a nightmare…and then soon enough it passed…Cici not only survived but thrived for years with us. Until she ran away or maybe someone took her—she was a very pretty dog!
Since that time we have had several dogs in our lives. When the girls left the nest to go to college–they left the dogs behind with me. It seemed only logical that now they were mom’s dogs.
Me–the reluctant dog owner–who was afraid to get too attached to these animals that I knew would one day break my heart. Yet here I am, the dog owner.
I have turned into the strangest version of myself talking to these dogs and having complete conversations with them. They are my friends. And they are fiercely loyal. And while I like to play at being tough–I love them to pieces.
The youngest daughter–in college now–recently adopted a new puppy! The family’s newest addition! (pictured above) I don’t know how they are faring in that small apartment but they both seem very happy with the other.
We are dog people. It seems that this family has completely gone to the dogs!