Some would say our communities are becoming more dangerous and our safety less secure. And that for the most part we are letting it happen. Many people who find themselves thinking, feeling and believing this are reaping what they have sown.
More and more, I see people, in my neighborhood who do not even acknowledge the people living around them. They ignore the person across the street, the kids playing in the yards or the lost dog.
The world is changing–people have forgotten or never learned the importance of community. They don’t care about anything that doesn’t directly affect them–what they don’t realize is that their attitude towards their neighbors is hurting themselves.
How? They have stopped caring, stopped being involved in our communities, and have stopped thinking about the well being of themselves and those around them. And then lamenting when something goes wrong. We absolutely need to do something about it.
I am not talking about being the nosy neighbor that pulls out the by laws of the Home owner’s Association and berates their neighbors for not hiding their trash cans on the right side of their homes.
I am talking about being a good neighbor.
Now I have been very blessed in my life to always have good neighbors. I hope in the bottom of my heart that my neighbors have thought of me as a good neighbor as well.
I don’t believe the complainers, the people who don’t care about others, the ones who scare others with talk of crime and mischief.
These are the traits of good neighbors:
Good neighbors watch out for each other–they know who lives in each house, the cars they drive and who their kids are. Many good neighbors will know which dog or cat belongs to which human.
Good neighbors will pick up a newspaper, or trash if they see it in a neighbor’s yard and they know that person is out of town.
Good neighbors keep an eye out when there are strangers about.
Good neighbors are always willing to lend a hand mowing lawns, mending a fence, fixing a car or preparing for a hurricane and evacuation.
Good neighbors will give time, lend tools and provide advice especially from older neighbors to younger, less experienced homeowners.
Good neighbors are not afraid to call in the authorities when they see something that is not right, that is not normal for their community.
Good neighbors worry about others, not just themselves.
With the world changing all around us–be a good neighbor–the benefits of this are directly felt by yourself.