For all us humans, our lives are about serving others. We don’t always like to think of it this way, but it is in fact what we are doing. Some people may react and think: “I was not put on this earth to serve others.” because we see it in terms of some menial task or job.
That’s not what I am talking about. What I am talking about is our purpose. Everyone’s purpose–in one way or another–is to serve others.
And it is exactly what we are supposed to do. It is how we serve that defines who we are, how we provide that service and what ultimately makes us happy.
Yup, we are all on this earth to serve others to find our happiness–and for those of you who think I’ve lost it and there is no coming back from this one–let me explain.
Children serve their parents: as a source of love, joy and many times comic relief. After all–they did not ask to come here–we created them.
Parents–serve their children by providing love, security, safety, guidance and yes–loads of embarrassing moments! (It is character building, kids–you’ll thank us one day!)
In school, students serve as being fountains to fill with knowledge in order to create an orderly society, a future workforce and the next generation of innovation.
Teachers in turn serve the community by educating those students and preparing them for life, the world outside and the many challenges that an education can help them overcome.
Politicians serve to keep our society civil, orderly and they are the referees of the “fair and square” in the world of law.
Doctors and nurses serve people who are sick or who want to prevent illness.
Husbands serve their wives by being a partner, a helpmate, a provider and by supporting the process of raising children and maintaining the home.
Wives also serve their husbands as partners, providers, the moral education of their children and the keepers of the home.
Churches serve the communities through religious teachings, being a moral compass to their members and providing spiritual guidance.
Our Military serve us by keeping us safe at home and abroad from bad actors that may want to physically harm us and our way of life.
Our Police Officers/Fire and EMS personnel serve us in keeping us safe and providing order and protection in our communities.
If you really think about it everyone and everything we do is in service for others. Yes–many of these examples are also called jobs and we get paid to serve. True. But most of these examples are underpaid, underappreciated and undervalued.
Yes–even the politicians. (Well maybe not the underpaid part)!
Regardless, this is the way it is supposed to be and how we keep an orderly world and smoothly running society.
When I sat down and really thought about this and its implications it became very clear to me why some people are happy and others are not so much.
If you don’t believe me, just look around and decide if many of society’s–and the world’s problems–would not be more easily corrected if everyone lived a life of service to someone else or to their community.
The ripple effects of this would be tremendous and it would help many people find a sense of their purpose.
When we have a purpose–a true desire to live the best life we can–it always includes some type of service. Follow your purpose–serve others and be happy!
How do you serve others in your life? How have others served you? What changes can you make in your life to bring you closer to your purpose?
How can I serve you? Comment below and let me know what you would like me to write about! And have fun today!