Autumn Changes

Autumn Changes

Tomorrow is the first day of autumn–my favorite season.   You will forgive me if I become a little wistful.

When I was a girl I lived in a climate in which you could really see and feel autumn all around you.

There would be a nip in the air–no longer the warmth of summer, the winds would pick up and the trees.  The beautiful trees would begin to turn.   The bright and deep green leaves would turn to yellow and orange and red.

In Texas–the autumns are a little different.   But you can definitely feel when there is a change in the air.

The heat that seems to come from the earth itself subsides, not entirely, but in short waves.  The rains come and the dusk and dawn stretch out and seem to get longer.

In autumn we think of the harvest–reaping what we sowed throughout the previous months, until all is gathered and collected.

Autumn is the quiet time in the seasons. It is when mother nature slows down and folds in on itself and prepares for the long rest of winter–so that in the spring  she is rejuvenated and ready for the force of summer.

Our autumn in life comes on very much like mother nature’s.  Cooler breezes,  some rains, the changing of colors.  And the rest and quiet to continue on.

I am just entering my autumn–not fully developed and changing slightly, but looking forward to the changes, the expectations and the whole new world that is opening before me.

Like my favorite season–I am enjoying each year more than my last and am continuing to look forward to all the transformations.

Embrace the cooler weather–the relaxing days–and enjoy the autumn like never before.

Rain, Rain, Hurricane

Rain, Rain, Hurricane

This year’s hurricane season seems to be off to a roaring start.  Already there have been 3 tropical storms in the Atlantic 1 in the Pacific and 1 official hurricane to enter the Gulf of Mexico.

As I write this, a new hurricane is nearing the Eastern coast of the United States and there are two more gathering strength in the Atlantic Ocean and headed our way.

It is almost unreal to watch these climatic phenomenon on a radar because they seem so unreal–unless you happen to be in its path.

While we did get hit with a Hurricane last year (Harvey)–and we are watching carefully–for now all we have received is rain.  A lot of rain.

So while we watch and wait, I love the rain.  I love to hear the thunder and I love lightning in the sky.

I can watch the rain for hours and enjoy the quiet it brings to the house.

Rainy days are wonderful for curling up with a book.  They are good days to write, and sew and do crafting projects.  Rainy days are good days to spend time with family and with our doggies.

Watching the rain through the window is relaxing and a wonder of mother nature.  The trees seem to be smiling up to heaven as they drink the waters coming down.

And yet–I hope we are not in the path of another hurricane this year.  I worry and watch those areas that are in a hurricane’s path and the hope the people living in those areas will escape the dangers.

Hurricanes after all are major storm systems that bring not just the beautiful rain but high winds and destruction. Watching these storms is imperative and getting out of its way a smart precaution to take.

With those thoughts I spend the rainy days thankful that the climate is ever changing and without the need for man to interfere–only to enjoy.

Sailing

Sailing

The dog days of summer have barely begun but already here in Texas we have some hot hot days with a heat index of 106 to 108.

I live near the coast now and going out to the beach is a beautifully short 20 minute drive away.

Since I am usually off for the summers, small escapes to the beach to sit and watch the waves or take a short walk along the shore are a great way to revitalize my batteries, spend some alone time, and think.

The beach holds a great deal of magic for me as our big vacations every year as a child always involved a beach.

We had long lazy days swimming in the ocean and in the hotel pool, with the smell of coppertone sun lotion and music playing in the background.

And the undivided attention of our parents who would swim and play with us. It is these memories I cherish the most and that remind me that there is a time to work and a time to relax.

The best place to relax of course is the beach.

From these summer escapes I always remember a song that no matter where I am or what I am doing, if I hear it, automatically takes me back there.

 

Sailing by Christopher Cross, the lyrics go like this:

Well, it’s not far down to paradise,

at least it’s not for me

And if the wind is right you can sail away and find tranquility

Oh, the canvas can do miracles,

just you wait and see.

Believe me.

It’s not far to never-never land, no reason to pretend

And if the wind is right you can find the joy of innocence again

Oh, the canvas can do miracles, just you wait and see.

Believe me.

Sailing takes me away to where I’ve always heard it could be

Just a dream and the wind to carry me

And soon I will be free….sailing.

 

That song sounds like the ocean and feels like the breeze I remember from my childhood. It holds happiness, calm and promise.

This summer I hope to continue my trips to the beach, to visit the ocean and to find the calm-to find the joy of innocence-just as the song says…

Happy sailing!

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Let’s Take a Trip

Let’s Take a Trip

Being in an empty nest helps fuel the imagination.  I think it is the extra time and the quiet house.

It is very liberating really to be able to think about things we really enjoy that we hadn’t had time for before…like traveling.

I love to travel! I’ve been very fortunate to have been able to visit many diverse places.  I haven’t been to as many as most, but certainly more than others.  

And while I haven’t been to as many places as I’d like–we are planning on taking advantage of all the experiences that the places we visit have!

While I am extremely afraid of flying…I do fly!  I have to talk myself into it each time, do a lot of praying and once on the plane will have the tears fall–especially as we take off or are coming in for a landing. But I’ll still do it!

It is the whole plummeting to earth idea I am not cool with!

I will go off to distant places if the opportunity presents itself, and it has, and I have! However, my favorite type of travel is by car!

I love America’s highways and how different and beautiful the regions and states can be. At the same time, for me, traveling around the United States is very familiar and comforting. Because no matter where I am, I am still home.

Last summer, my husband and I drove to Pensacola, Florida from Corpus Christi, Texas to visit family and we had a great time!

The road trip itself took us 2 days to get there and 2 back, mostly because we were enjoying the scenery and were in no hurry.  It was very relaxing and since we had our two doggies along we made frequent stops so they (me) could go to the bathroom.

It was great to have that time with my husband, we got to talk about many things which I think keeps us connected as a couple and brings us closer.  I am very lucky to be married to my best friend and so even quiet times are wonderful!

Along the way, we appreciated the changes in the vegetation, the colors and the smells and how the miles just went on into the horizon. Time was our own and we were happy and fulfilled.  It is a very good place to be!

I took pictures of the Welcome signs as we entered each new state: Louisiana, Mississippi, Alabama and Florida.  We went from the coast in Texas to Piney Woods, through swampland and over the mighty Mississippi River and eventually back to the coast of Florida.  The traveling was one of my favorite parts of the trip.

Spending time with family, also, to me is priceless.  As I have gotten older and hopefully matured–I am not necessarily looking for the most glamorous or adventurous place to travel to.  I am looking for that sense of belonging and relaxation.  

I enjoy the sight-seeing, the meals out and the meals in that we make together with love, conversation and especially lots of laughter.  There is also just getting to know a new place and seeing things we haven’t seen before.

Traveling is not just a special place but a special moment in time.

I am hoping, in my empty nest years, to do a great deal of traveling and experiencing. Especially as I travel to see the ones that I love the most as they create their own lives!

Have you been on a trip recently that you enjoyed?  What was your favorite part of the trip?

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